I've lived in both Americas. Most people everywhere don't want to hate each other 

“According to Hidden Tribes, a 2018 report on political polarization in America, some 77% of Americans ‘believe that our differences aren’t so great that we can’t come together.’ Our fellow citizens on the far left and right may never come together, but I know that most people across this land do not want to hate each other. My neighbors in Atlanta and in Chautauqua share lots of common ground.”